while i feel for the guy whose partner isn't dying to jump his bones...i'm with her on the being happy just to do it deal.
if i were in a relationship where my sex drive wasn't up to speed with my partners, i'd have sex anyway. will it be as good for him or me? i'll try--but aside from faking (not my thing) there isn't any guarantee. but to me, sex is nice even when you aren't really in the mood. i like the intimacy, the connection, and i love making my partner happy. it may not be orgasmic, but it's pleasurable.
good to hear she's willing to try the pill. i hope things improve for both of you
