I think it's completely natural, normal even, to be a bit taken aback at your first sight of his penis, especially if it was erect. Also remember, men are a little more visually cued than we are. He might think that the mere sight of a body part would be enough to generate some sort of ravenous response, because perhaps that's what he experiences. Not that we don't also respond of course, but as I recall, when I was still a virgin I didn't really know how to want sex badly because I didn't fully understand what there was to want! It wasn't until I had done it more than a few times that my sexuality matured to the point that I could see a naked man and get turned on like that. I would hope that he'd be able to understand - I don't like the sound of him saying that to you. Maybe his feelings were hurt.
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