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Temp User...
Bottom line--if the girl is too chubby for you and isn't showing any signs of getting better, chances are she wont. Girls like this can be friends, but you can't realistically sustain a healthy relationship when deep down you are not happy with how your partner looks. Then you get into being ashamed subconciously when you go out with her...etc. To all the ladies up in arms over this...sorry, that's how it is. Sex is a part of a relationship, being proud of your partner is a part of the relationship, as I see it. If they don't take care of their bodies and their appearance, then I'm not gonna be with em. And this is not coming from a hypocrite--in high school i was 6'2, 210lbs. Not fat by any means but i was a husky kid. That was at 16/17. Now i'm 20 and almost a junior in college, I'm 6'2 180lbs, work out 3-4 times a week and lead a generally physically active life. Be the change you want to see--if you can't committ to taking care of yourself how are you going to take care of anybody else?
Go with what's gonna make you happy man. It may sound selfish but in the end you'll save both of yourselves some trouble.
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