03-01-2005, 11:37 AM | #41 (permalink) | |
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And if she sat there and pushed an over priced salad around on her plate he'd be mad because she wasted his money. When I spend my money taking somebody to dinner it's usually because I want them to enjoy really good dishes that they don't usually get a chance to eat at home.It's a special occasion. I'd never dream of making fun of them because they cleaned their plate or point out that they ate more than I did,heck I'd be pleased they enjoyed the meal ! Oh and another thing, a lot of those chicks who just sit there lanquidly pushing food around on the plate either ate before leaving their house or are snorting white powder on their frequent trips to the rest room. Taking her out to eat,then making "jokes" because she actually eats smells like a setup to me cause there's no way she can win here.If she eats you can make pig noises,if she doesn't you can get huffy because she wasted your money ordering food to push around on her plate. |
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03-01-2005, 05:22 PM | #42 (permalink) | |
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03-01-2005, 09:18 PM | #43 (permalink) |
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ure right le petite..theres a huge difference..if my SO heard me say that she'd be upset too lol.. but i guess a dietician can also be a nutritoinist, but a nutritionist cant be a dietician..if that makes sense...but even i get mixed up sometimes
i had to endure 4 years of my SO's nutrition/dietetics course, passing with Honours.. pfft...so yeah she would be upset if i called her a nutritionist... i got thru uni by the skin of my teeth..hell ...my motto was.."a mark of 51, and i studied 1 mark too hard " so yeah..she'd be upset cos shes a study be and im not. if i want to get on her bad side i call her a nutritionist and she gives me the "death stare"
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03-01-2005, 10:46 PM | #44 (permalink) | |
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And unless he said he'd be pissed if she didn't eat her food(which I doubt considering he himself didn't finish his food off) then I don't think it's wise or proper to put words into his "mouth" that he didn't remotely imply or say. We should be above such things right? |
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03-07-2005, 12:04 AM | #46 (permalink) | |
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03-07-2005, 04:42 AM | #47 (permalink) |
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I think you are looking for trouble where there is none. She cleaned her plate? Big deal. She should be having a lot of calories, if you are an inactive man then she should be eating more then you to compensate her working out. Also, the weight she needs to lose is it the "I'm 134 and like to be 130" pounds? Those are the hardest to lose and she may never get to her goal weight, maybe you should reassure her current weight. If you really want to help and she lets you, suggest a nutritionist/dietician to help with her eating habits.
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03-08-2005, 06:13 AM | #48 (permalink) |
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Bottom line--if the girl is too chubby for you and isn't showing any signs of getting better, chances are she wont. Girls like this can be friends, but you can't realistically sustain a healthy relationship when deep down you are not happy with how your partner looks. Then you get into being ashamed subconciously when you go out with her...etc. To all the ladies up in arms over this...sorry, that's how it is. Sex is a part of a relationship, being proud of your partner is a part of the relationship, as I see it. If they don't take care of their bodies and their appearance, then I'm not gonna be with em. And this is not coming from a hypocrite--in high school i was 6'2, 210lbs. Not fat by any means but i was a husky kid. That was at 16/17. Now i'm 20 and almost a junior in college, I'm 6'2 180lbs, work out 3-4 times a week and lead a generally physically active life. Be the change you want to see--if you can't committ to taking care of yourself how are you going to take care of anybody else? Go with what's gonna make you happy man. It may sound selfish but in the end you'll save both of yourselves some trouble. |
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