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ooookay, to clarify 1: the roommate is on the lease so is his cousin. 2: we obviously haven't called the cops yet even though had ample reason, probably won't. It was a thought, a consideration and it will probably be a threat since nothing else has worked to get him to stop. I've asked him nicely, and not so nicely to stop. 3: tiltedbc did you even read all of what the original post was? he never throws his trash away, any of it. the cigarette butts in cups is just more trash. he's thrown them away once or twice after I let them sit there for over a week and he realized I wasn't going to pick them up. and why would it be screaming fuck you bitch when I pay his bills when he can't cover them and let it slide for two months until he can pay me, or the fact I do all the cleaning and taking out the trash and such. If you ask me he has it pretty damn nice and to not respect either of his roommates, my fiance or me, just pisses me off. I'm not saying he can't smoke, just not inside. I certainly don't! I'm not dating him. Yes it's unfortunate that we don't get along but I at least try to respect him and his privacy. 4: I do have a lot on my plate and this is added stress. It'll be gone soon so I'm just going to try to live with it and deal maybe try talking to him again. No we shouldn't have let him room with us but we had met him before and things seemed like a good plan at the time. I was majorly stressing when I originally wrote this since he'd been smoking pot when I got up. And he only smokes inside when he knows we aren't there or are asleep and won't be up, he's trying to hide it. If he was going to say "fuck you bitch" he'd do it in the open. I really appreciate everyone else's advice though. I feel better and have calmed down quite a bit. I just wanted other's perspectives on this since I didn't want to overreact and irritate the situation more.
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Cain: I know what you're doing. I've lead troops into battle before.
DG: And, how am I doing?
Cain: Well, there's less *hugging* when I do it
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