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Originally Posted by AfterBurn
it's way better to be interested instead of interesting. it's less work for you (dont have to come up with stuff to say) and it makes the person youre talking to feel good. when you talk about yourself most people dont care but if you can at least show you care then youll go a long way.
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I agree.
I would much prefer to be able to go out with a friend with a bunch of his friends and sit back and observe them all than have to talk with them (Once i get to know people, I open up alittle and talk). If i am going to talk to somebody for the first time, I'm much better one on one. I have been told before that i am just anti-social..There is some truth to that, But it's not always the case.
I even try to read some people on TFP..It's a bit more difficult online when it's just words though.