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I agree with everything bad jane said. Even though probation screwed up you had plenty of time to get the hours done. She has been raising your 2 kids for (if I am reading it right) a year and a half now, waiting for you to get your stuff done, thinking for the whole time that you would be done soon, and then she hears you were lying for half the time. She probably thinks that the probation screw ups were lies too and that in turn probably makes her wonder what you HAVE been doing with your time. Possibly, she may even think that you really don't WANT to come home.
I think counseling would be the best route, maybe personal counseling and marriage counseling.
If you give her time and show her love and support, hopefully she can forgive (we all know you can never forget). If she doesn't come around then there isn't much you can do about it except start the rebuilding process.
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