Medusa99: Labels all by themselves aren't bad, it's only when the label is used as an excuse for discrimination that harm is done. I think of myself as a lesbian, but if you wanted to look at my previous post and say that a woman who enjoys performing oral sex on a man must be bisexual, I'd have no problem with that, as it certainly makes sense. Not every situation is so cut and dried as to fit one convenient label.
Sage: Well said in your second paragraph.
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