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Originally Posted by uptown
All this talk about why we shouldn't feel inadequate because a guy "chooses" to be with us instead of the gorgous women he's eyeing on tv,magazines,in porn or on the street.
Did it ever occur to anybody that a guy has only "choosen" us till he can do better and that igf he had a shot at a woman of that calibre of beauty that most of us would get dumped so fast our heads would spin?
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I am not inadequate! (Neither is any other woman on this forum!) My guy married me. We are VERY happy! And he still looks at porn and masturbates -- so what!? So do I! We are together because we don't want any other. Sex for sex and sex for love are two different things. Porn is the first. Thankfully we have a good mix of both!
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It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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