Balanced, but leaning more towards interesting. It's easier for me to maintain my side of the conversation if the other person takes the lead and I can respond, comment, or expand on what they say. But I also want to be a participant. It depends upon how much the other person dominates the conversaion; I'm perfectly willing to let it be all about them. This is why I like message boards; it's too easy for me to be passive in live conversations, and here I can take my time to think and express myself without being lost or drowned out by others.
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