Nikki is right, All men masturbate and it's not a bad thing & a reason to worry.
You seem uncomfortble in this relationship...are you trying to remain a virgin for any particular reason? You two seem so very out of synch and that might be a cause for concern. It seems like you'd be happier with a virgin guy, so you could share this learning/loving process together. Don't loose "it" for the wrong reason. Find a way to share this truth with your boyfriend. If it isn't easy to share, in truth, be open to other possibilities. It's good that you are discussing this -it's a huge leap toward your own personal strength and wisdom.
Listen to your heart.
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