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Sexuality and Choice
Ok, I searched with several keywords and didn't find this specific thread, so please forgive me if I somehow missed it. Also, if it should need to be moved to philosophy, again I apologize.
Anyway, I was at work thinking about this today. Do you think bisexuality is mostly choice? The reason I was thinking about this is because hubby and I have engaged in "soft swinging" in the past, part of which was me making out and touching another woman. Several years ago I would never have considered doing this, I considered myself "straight" and nothing but, but as I've gotten older and hubby and I have opened up more sexually and I've become more open to things that I may not have been in my younger years. I enjoyed the encounter quite a bit and would be interested in similar encounters in the future.
I have noticed that many more women than men admit to being bisexual; I don't know if this is due to society or from a long ago instinctual thing. A lot of animals have a male with many females and all of the females help take care of the young; in some "primitive" human societies similar things occur. A man may have several wives, all of whom take care of the children, and to me it would seem natural to form strong bonds, perhaps even sexual ones, with these other women. What do you think?
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