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maleficent · 03-03-2005, 10:21 AM

I have a few questions

1. When you found the cookies on his computer, how'd you go about finding them? Were you snooping? Cookies aren't exactly out in the open, and unless you are explicitly looking for them, you aren't going to. (Favorites are out on the open, s o that's not really snooping.) Why were you snooping?

2. When he's lied to you about the porn, and you wanted to beleive him, but your instincts told you otherwise why did you not call him on the lies?
looking at porn is not a big deal, and it's not something you should be jealous of, but lying about something so trivial bothers me... Is he lying to spare your feelings?

How to not be jealous over trivial stuff? Not always easy just remember that the women in those pictures are airbrushed and professional and also paper, You are a living breathing woman ... real beats paper any day of the week.

Him not wanting to have sex might just be that - he was tired... or just not in the mood. Have you ever been able to bring him to orgasm? Have you asked him what he likes - and what he wants you to do?

Gildas right on with don't have sex until you are ready... You dont sound like you are ready -- don't have sex just because you think it's what he wants... It shoudl be because you want it for you...

03-03-2005, 10:21 AM	#3 (permalink)
maleficent Junkie Moderator Emeritus Location: Chicago	I have a few questions 1. When you found the cookies on his computer, how'd you go about finding them? Were you snooping? Cookies aren't exactly out in the open, and unless you are explicitly looking for them, you aren't going to. (Favorites are out on the open, s o that's not really snooping.) Why were you snooping? 2. When he's lied to you about the porn, and you wanted to beleive him, but your instincts told you otherwise why did you not call him on the lies? looking at porn is not a big deal, and it's not something you should be jealous of, but lying about something so trivial bothers me... Is he lying to spare your feelings? How to not be jealous over trivial stuff? Not always easy just remember that the women in those pictures are airbrushed and professional and also paper, You are a living breathing woman ... real beats paper any day of the week. Him not wanting to have sex might just be that - he was tired... or just not in the mood. Have you ever been able to bring him to orgasm? Have you asked him what he likes - and what he wants you to do? Gildas right on with don't have sex until you are ready... You dont sound like you are ready -- don't have sex just because you think it's what he wants... It shoudl be because you want it for you... __________________ Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.