I find that I'm terrible with words mostly in sex too, but the funny thing is when I'm into it, I can actually do dirty talk to some extent. But yeah, all the "tell me what you want" stuff isn't exactly a turn on...especially as my imagination is lacking in the fantasy department. I'm pretty simple that way.
edit: I guess like Squishor said, I need to take care of my mindset towards sex. I suppose the more I think about sex the more I'll get the imagination I lack...
Thanks so much for all the help girls, please keep your advice coming, I need all the help I can get!
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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