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One thing I noticed about your post is that you said you've been dating about 11 mo. That's long enough for the original excitement to wear off and for a couple to fall into a routine. That can happen at any age of a relationship but it seems to naturally happen around this time. At least it did for me and I've seen it in other relationships too.
Guys are lazy. Some moreso than others. His non-picture taking attitude is simply cause you ARE taking a LOT of pictures. He's not interested in taking lots of his own cause it takes work. Are you really good at taking pictures? Another possibility there is just that he may feel like he doesn't take good ones so why waste the film and effort when you DO take good ones and enjoy it.
As was said already, a long distance relationship takes a lot more work. I've been in one that was 2 1/2 hours apart for a while. It gives you a lot more free time to analyze a lot of what's going on and what peoples motives are for doing things. You are nearby to know exactly what they're doing all the time so it gives you a lot of possibilities for the imagination to wonder what they're up to even though there's nothing to suspect.
To me it sounds like you're a normal girl in a long distance relationship that needs to be spiced up just a tad. I wouldn't worry too much.
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