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Lebell · 02-23-2005, 03:30 PM

I'll echo the "no idea".

How you and your mate are now gives you some idea of how it will be (not an exact idea, but some idea.)

For instance, my ex was very so so on sex at 30 and at 45, it was pretty much in the crapper.

I myself have always been a horn dog (3 or 4 times whacking a day in my teens) and now at 40, I still enjoy it pretty frequently, as does my new wife. Do I expect it to continue into 50 and 60? Maybe not to this extent, but yes, I do.

But something I've learned is that if you are focused on looks (and aren't rich), you might as well give up and get yourself an inflatable doll, because you'll never be happy.

The truth is that bodies get old, flesh sags and wrinkles, and hair grays and falls out. But a mature person grows and realizes that looks aren't what sex is about...it's about love and connectedness to another human being. When you realize that, your mate is always beautiful.

02-23-2005, 03:30 PM	#5 (permalink)
Lebell Cracking the Whip Location: Sexymama's arms...	I'll echo the "no idea". How you and your mate are now gives you some idea of how it will be (not an exact idea, but some idea.) For instance, my ex was very so so on sex at 30 and at 45, it was pretty much in the crapper. I myself have always been a horn dog (3 or 4 times whacking a day in my teens) and now at 40, I still enjoy it pretty frequently, as does my new wife. Do I expect it to continue into 50 and 60? Maybe not to this extent, but yes, I do. But something I've learned is that if you are focused on looks (and aren't rich), you might as well give up and get yourself an inflatable doll, because you'll never be happy. The truth is that bodies get old, flesh sags and wrinkles, and hair grays and falls out. But a mature person grows and realizes that looks aren't what sex is about...it's about love and connectedness to another human being. When you realize that, your mate is always beautiful. __________________ "Of all tyrannies, a tyranny exercised for the good of its victims may be the most oppressive. It may be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron's cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end, for they do so with the approval of their own conscience." – C. S. Lewis The ONLY sponsors we have are YOU! Please Donate!