la petite moi

My first time, I was scared, but not that scared. I think it depends on how self-conscious people are with their body or how they were raised.

It's also pretty painful to me, so don't think for one second that I enjoy anything like that.

Personally, I would encourage your wife to see a therapist about her fear. Doctors are not there to touch a woman sexually. If she doesn't want to do that or you don't have the money, maybe you could ask the doctor if you could come and hold her hand. (They might not let you, but I'm sure if they let you, your wife would probably appreciate it.)