Jonsgirl

I agree. Maybe you are donig all the 'work' because the girl(s) are so bored by your technique?

It seems to me like you feel sex should be all about you and how it makes you feel. (examples- "Oh, I don't like sex with condoms. Oh, I hate to work at it. and Oh, I'd rather just get head.")

Guess what, my friend, there are two of you in that bed. If you put effort into making her feel good, then she'll put more effort into making you feel good.

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