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I'm with Seaver here. And I think that if your main problem with sex is the lack of response from your partner, then maybe you need new partners.
And, even if she's on top *ahem* "doing all the work", sex is still a team effort..... there's no such thing in good sex as one sided effort. Its all about giving and taking, both of you moving and touching and expressing what feels good and what doesn't.
If you don't like sex, then either you've just never had any good sex, or you have a diminished libido. I'm personally guessing the first option.... I don't know how old you are, but it doesn't sound like you've had a lot of varied experience yet. I wasn't really fond of sex until I learned to be in control of making sure my partner knew what I like and don't like. Turns out, its a LOT better when one of you isn't expecting the other to be psychic.
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