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I don't want to be the first person to burst your bubble but I love sex.
The first thing that comes to mind when I read this is: is the girl into it as much as you are? (were) Maybe she’s expecting too much from you? Are you giving 90 and she's giving 10? Maybe your only problem is that there's a little lack of communication going on.
For example, between my wife and myself, it's taken a while for both of us to be really comfortable with sex and each other. I'm a total advocate for married sex. Once both of you are together for so long you become in tune to the other person's wants and needs and it's easier for you to meet them. What I'm trying to get at is that in the beginning for us, there was pressure on me to go for a long time and make sure that she cums every time. Now, we both realize that it just doesn’t happen every single time. We're both human. There are other ways for me to satisfy her if for some reason she doesn't cum before I do. Toys, for example. Overall, our communication about sex has gotten better than when we were first married. I think that's what your real problem is. Just communicate with her and just find out what you both want.
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