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Originally Posted by TheWalkinDude
I loved her and am still in love with her and don't know how to even begin getting over her. As always, your replies are welcomed
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Objective anger is usually the best way. Not the "I'll tear your fucking heart out & cook it on my stove with fava beans, bitch!" kind of anger, but the kind that comes with cold assessment about the situation.
You were a nice guy, you loved her unconditionally, you gave her her space, & she flips you so she can go out with Justin/Jared/Troy. In other words, she sucks as a person & you don't. The next 3 weeks are going to feel like ass so keep yourself busy with new activities, not ones you used to do with Cruella. Leave music out of your life for awhile because everytime a song comes on that has a connection to shithead, it will pull you right back.
Fear not, eventually you'll be able to say "Eat me!" and move on. Lastly, and this is the
most important, in a month if by chance she crawls back, so sorry about how awful she treated you, do not meet her for coffee, do not go over to her place, do not see her. Just say goodbye. She did it once, she'll do it again. (& by doing it now, she did you a favor, you just don't know it yet.)
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