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I agree with abaya about hiding your true feelings. Here's my story: My girlfriend of 2 1/2 years just broke up with me the beginning of this month. We agreed that we should still be good friends no matter what happens. I told her that I was ok, even though I was still very much in love with her. For the first week I made sure to be there when she called, to be the emotional support and blah blah like a friend is supposed to do. But I did that because I was still very much infatuated with her. But then I began to understand that it was over, so I moved on but continued being her friend. Up until last night, when she called me saying that I shouldn't call her anymore, because of what her friends are saying. It didn't make sense, because she told me that she still wanted to be friends, but at the same time I can't call her. I assume she might have a new love interest who doesn't like the idea of her ex still talking to her. I've come to the decision that it's just best to stay out of the whole situation entirely. Even though I may be over her, and that we are "just friends" now, her friends believe that me being her in life is a negative thing. Rather than argue, I stepped out of the whole situation. I think it's best that you take a less active role in their relationship. Let them work out whatever problems they have. I think you've made it clear that you really do care for her, so she won't be confused about that. I'm just as anxious as you are, and I'm just telling you what I've been telling myself.
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