You're gonna have to sit down with your guy and talk about money stuff. Money issues is the cause of many relationship failures, and it's the thing that I worry about with my relationship the most.
Maybe sit down with him and work out a budget. $800 a month is a huge amount to just disappear. With that amount, you two should be able to come up with a budget where you both have a comfortable amount of spending money each month.
Awhile back I kept track of every penny that I spent. Its amazing how each trip to Starbucks or the snack machine can add up. Maybe for him its a trip to the book store or the latest Xbox game. You'll need to figure out where all this money is going and now to fix the problem.
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