I was recently having a coversation with a friend from school about her sex life, she wasn't too happy because her situation was almost the same as yours. We were saying how sex makes a relationship stronger, if the sex is dead and there is no chemistry and passion between two people, their moments will be tense and stressful. I can only imagine what you're going through, I suggest you speak to him about it. If he is watching porn for a thrill while you are in the same house, then there is something wrong. There is nothing wrong with men watching porn when they are alone to satisfy their needs, but there is something terribly wrong with men watching porn when their women are in the same room/house with them. To most men, looking at his woman and making love to his woman is more realistic, and it gives them more pleasure. Please speak to him about it. You need to communicate with him about this and let him know that you notice his behaviors and you won't tolerate it. I wish you all the best.
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