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Originally Posted by Ribs
Because I never knew that fingering her had the smallest chance of getting her pregnant. I wish someone told me this and I would have never touched her or let her touch me. Thats what makes it worse. And after the first time we did it I told her we should use a condom even although I "knew" that nothing can happen from this. Well I knew wrong.
And yes even if she isnt, which I'm still sure she is, I am going to talk with her about this stuff.
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A mature adult who is ready to be sexually active would have talked about all of this stuff
before they engaged in sexual activity. And yes, fingering and hand jobs do count as sexual activity.
And furthermore, a mature adult doesn't decide that his potentially pregnant girlfriend (who at this point is unaware) should get an abortion. You need to talk to her and you need to grow up.