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I totally understand where you're coming from, I can almost relate. It's okay to feel the way you do. I believe that any of us would be hurt, sensitive or not sensitive. It's a very special moment for you and I am sure that anything negative that anyone does will affect you a great deal. It seems that she really does want to spend time with her brother but whether she has a motive for not wanting to come to the shower anymore, I couldn't say. But, whatever you do, do not get her brother involved, speak to her about it,tell her how you feel. Explain to her that you are hurt. We can only give you a limited amount of advice and suggestions here but only you and her can solve that problem. And I don't think she would really know how you feel unless you tell her that you are hurt!
Good luck and congrats ...
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