I've been in sexual relationships with more than one person at a time, but I don't like it simply because other people cannot handle it the way I can and jealousy almost always becomes involved. I'm pretty bohemian when it comes to my ideas about sex and relationships, but I have a distinct tendency towards serial monogamy with brief periods of experimentation. I recently passed on a sexual relationship simply because it would have made things weird between my existing sexual partner and I. He's not as comfortable bending and blending the lines of relationships as I am, and since our relationship (though strictly sexual) is important to me, I said no to the other guy. Ah, but at least I'm satisfied...
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If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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