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dksuddeth · 02-10-2005, 09:27 AM

you can't do anything about a persons state, physical, mental, or emotional, if they won't let you. The only two things you can do in this situation is a) let her have what she wants and be there IF she decides she made a mistake in dumping you, or b) you can pull yourself up by the bootstraps and get on with living your own life and let her find out her mistakes on her own.

It sucks, i've been there, and sometimes people have to learn the hard way that doing things on an emotional upset swing has major consequences. In the end, after you've gone on with your life, she may figure out that she screwed up........a lesson learned the hard way but such is life.

02-10-2005, 09:27 AM	#10 (permalink)
dksuddeth Junkie Location: bedford, tx	you can't do anything about a persons state, physical, mental, or emotional, if they won't let you. The only two things you can do in this situation is a) let her have what she wants and be there IF she decides she made a mistake in dumping you, or b) you can pull yourself up by the bootstraps and get on with living your own life and let her find out her mistakes on her own. It sucks, i've been there, and sometimes people have to learn the hard way that doing things on an emotional upset swing has major consequences. In the end, after you've gone on with your life, she may figure out that she screwed up........a lesson learned the hard way but such is life. __________________ "no amount of force can control a free man, a man whose mind is free. No, not the rack, not fission bombs, not anything. You cannot conquer a free man; the most you can do is kill him."