I don't know, I'd be pretty hurt by this. You helped throw HER a bridal shower. She said she'd come any weekend in March. She had to choose your bridal shower weekend for brother time? Sounds like she just loooves you. Do you guys get on? Do you like her? Ask her whether she couldn't reschedule brother time for a different weekend and come over to your bridal shower and let her know how hurt you'd be if she doesn't come. Plus, what's the difference in spending time with him when he's married or not? He's still her brother. Sounds like she's trying to exclude you, or imply that when he's married to you it won't be the same...which in my book is BS.
But don't listen to me, I'm paranoid  
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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