Originally Posted by Manuel Hong

All you can do is handle it with grace and maturity and live your life as well as you are able. You can't make someone feel something that you want them to. I know it hurts, I'm sorry. Maybe you will be friends eventually, but give her what she wants now, what choice do you have? If you need closure, send her a note wishing her well and leave the door open if she needs to talk (if you want to). If you need to vent, then write another letter and let it fly, but whatever you do, DON'T send it!!