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maleficent · 02-09-2005, 01:43 PM

Having serious health issues is a lot for a person to handle, add on to that the pressures of exams -- it's a lot on a person.

If you care about this girl, be her friend and give her some space right now while she gets her health problems sorted out. It may not be you or anything you've done --it's just if her health status is unsure... then she might not want someone else to worry about.

If it were me, with some heath problems, I wouldn't want to deal with a boyfriend -- yes they could be supportive and all, but I don't want a boyfriend to take care of me, so until I was able to take care of myself, I'd rather go it alone...

02-09-2005, 01:43 PM	#4 (permalink)
maleficent Junkie Moderator Emeritus Location: Chicago	Having serious health issues is a lot for a person to handle, add on to that the pressures of exams -- it's a lot on a person. If you care about this girl, be her friend and give her some space right now while she gets her health problems sorted out. It may not be you or anything you've done --it's just if her health status is unsure... then she might not want someone else to worry about. If it were me, with some heath problems, I wouldn't want to deal with a boyfriend -- yes they could be supportive and all, but I don't want a boyfriend to take care of me, so until I was able to take care of myself, I'd rather go it alone... __________________ Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.