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C4 Diesel · 02-09-2005, 01:40 PM

1) Accept it. Move on. Trying desperately to cling to someone who doesn't want you there is just going to add stress to your life and be emotioanlly taxing.

2) From the way you made it sound, either you were smothering her, she has emotional problems, or she wanted to be with someone else (perhaps even cheating). You can probably figure out which of these it is. You're the best gauge to whether she's crazy or not. If you don't think she's emotionally unstable, then were you always pressing to be with her or talk to her or be doing things together? If yes, then you could have been smothering her and drove her away. If neither of these are true, then she's likely after someone else. If you don't think any of these are true, then you probably don't know enough about your relationship.... unless someone else can think of something.

edit: These three possibilities that I mentioned were assuming that you and her were mutually compatible in the first place and you were a good partner.

02-09-2005, 01:40 PM	#2 (permalink)
C4 Diesel Crazy Location: Troy, NY	1) Accept it. Move on. Trying desperately to cling to someone who doesn't want you there is just going to add stress to your life and be emotioanlly taxing. 2) From the way you made it sound, either you were smothering her, she has emotional problems, or she wanted to be with someone else (perhaps even cheating). You can probably figure out which of these it is. You're the best gauge to whether she's crazy or not. If you don't think she's emotionally unstable, then were you always pressing to be with her or talk to her or be doing things together? If yes, then you could have been smothering her and drove her away. If neither of these are true, then she's likely after someone else. If you don't think any of these are true, then you probably don't know enough about your relationship.... unless someone else can think of something. edit: These three possibilities that I mentioned were assuming that you and her were mutually compatible in the first place and you were a good partner. __________________ C4 to your door, no beef no more...