Dumped because she "has more important things to worry about"
Hi all. Anyway, my girlfriend has been having some fairly serious problems with her health lately. Also, lately she has been putting a hell of a lot of distance between us, saying she needs space, all the while seeing her friends as much as usual.
So tonight she dumps me, saying she just can't handle the pressure because of her health problems and exams.
So of course I'm stunned. I can't understand how I add pressure instead of take it away. I've always been there for her, I've never been selfish in our relationship. I'm sure that I've always put her first.
Now I'm heartbroken because the girl I was completely in love with doesn't love me anymore, as well as bitter that she pushed me away while staying just as close to everyone else around her, and I'm also very worried about her health issues.
What does everyone think? Should I be more understanding of her situation; a boyfriend is too much too handle on top of bad health and pressing exams? Or should I be angry because she doesn't have a good enough reason to end something that I thought was so important to her? I just don't know how to feel at the moment. I had pictures of her on my wall and I couldn't look at them, so I took them down and the bare wall just looks worse. I've become a complete wreck in the last two hours.
If anyone has any experience or advice I'd be really grateful.
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