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A few months ago, we had a huge argument, and I broke up with him, he called back and tried to work things out with me and I gave in, because heck, I love him more than anything, so I decided to give it a shot. Then out of the blue, I told him that we should get engaged
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These few statements alone say a whole lot.
Y'all had a fight, and you left the relationship. Did you both work out what the fight was about... if I were him, this would be weighing in the back of my head -- when the going got tough... the tough got going. Now the fight may have been completely his fault, and you were right to leave.. but you came back, so it couldn't have been that bad.
Perfection only exists in a vacuum, and if he's waiting for the perfect time to get engaged, it will never happen. But, you also want it to be the best possible time for both of you. If you are both still in school, or paying off huge amounts of student loans, it's probably not the best time. If you are both unemployed, it's probably not the best time.
You say that the past year has been great, but only a few months ago, you ended the relationship, why the rush to get engaged?