My SO is bi and talks about wanting to have a 3-some in the future with one of her previous partners (ie. it was just sex, no relationship). I'm not too sure how I feel about it (as it seems like a lot of pressure would be put on me to please both of them), though last time I told her my concern, she said she would bring it up when we are sexually much further into the relationship. I honestly wouldn't have a problem with another guy, though that also sounds like asking for an uncomfortable situation unless he and I went through a number of ground rules first. Then again, my gf also wants very badly to get it on with my roomate and his gf, and I have to admit this has a strange apeal, though I doubt they would go for it. We would have to discuss it, though I am definetly open to it...
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