Well, I will speak from personal experience this time. I was in a relationship a few years ago where I whipped myself. I thought she wanted me to spend all of my time with her, but I was wrong, and that's why that one didn't last long and she's getting married to a friend of mine now. During that time during which I was whipped (and there was no sex and no intention of it), my friends genuinely missed spending time with me. I did enjoy spending time with her, but I also realized afterwards that I enjoyed spending time with my friends as well, and that's why it didn't work.
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