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Sex can be a type of making love, making love is performing an action that expresses your love for the other person, even if it's just saying "I love you". I tend to think of sex as making love because it is one of the best ways that I can think of to let my girlfriend know that I love her. Making love is about the intimacy of the act, and when I make love to my girlfriend it is very intimate, but for a lot of people it is nothing more than "Hey this feels good, I want to do it, and I don't care who I do it with".
I have a good little test to check if your making love or just fucking:
If you can look your partner in the eye while having sex and honestly tell them that you love them, then your making love. If not, then your just fucking.
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