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This child needs professional help, and he likely needs an intervention that brings help to him, since his parents don't seem to be advocating for him as actively as they should. Any scrutiny a mental health professional could give this boy is better than the future than awaits him without some kind of help -- counseling, medicine, whatever. I worked in an adolescent psychiatric hospital in Minnesota for a few years, and this kid sounds like he is one or two episodes from being in a place like that himself, especially with the self-injury, anti-social behavior, and the weak personality traits. IMO, his behavior at school is a symptom of a much larger and potentionally much more dangerous mental health situation. Very sadly, 12 year olds do hurt themselves seriously, and sometime commit suicide. Do your part to keep this from happening.
Don't be afraid to raise your voice! (I remember the first time I called the police for a domestic violence call at a neighbor's house -- I was very nervous about what would happen next. The couple ended up thanking me for it together, even though he went to jail for it.) Also be aware that there are mandated reporter laws in some states that compel some professionals to relay their concerns to school or legal authorities. I don't know your profession, but please be aware of your own legal liabilities as one who is clearly in the middle of the situation.
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