My feelings on having "experience" in a relationship:
I was a "naturally" shy guy too until I got more experience and things with women just became easier. They aren't as scary as they seem, or would want you to believe sometimes. I was dumped by a girl who was lacking experience, and she wanted to taste a bit more of life. It hurt at the time but it ended up being one of the best things that happened to me because it forced me to do certain things I hadn't in the past.
Don't peg yourself to this girl because you don't think there will ever be anything better just because you've never had anything as good. I'm with the girl right now I think I will be with for the rest of my life because of all the experience I've accumulated. I think experience in other relationship is good for when a good relationship has its problems and you have the experience to know whether the problems are small and fixable or big and deal-breakers.
As for the orgasming thing, value that, she is telling you in your own words she loves you more than she has loved any other guy.
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