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Yakk · 02-02-2005, 02:01 PM

Second guessing, and thinking too much about what other people think of your actions, are different things. Dualman seems to be convolving them into one problem.

There is nothing wrong with thinking you could be wrong. Realize you cannot get the ideal answer. Pick one, it doesn't matter if it isn't ideal or perfect, and go with it.

This doesn't mean you should, can or will only have one solution or belief in a situation. It means you should pick one of those beliefs quickly (it doesn't matter which one) and ride it, until shown otherwise.

Being able to see more than one side of an issue, problem or situation is a gift. Just don't let it paralyze you.

02-02-2005, 02:01 PM	#6 (permalink)
Yakk Wehret Den Anfängen! Location: Ontario, Canada	Second guessing, and thinking too much about what other people think of your actions, are different things. Dualman seems to be convolving them into one problem. There is nothing wrong with thinking you could be wrong. Realize you cannot get the ideal answer. Pick one, it doesn't matter if it isn't ideal or perfect, and go with it. This doesn't mean you should, can or will only have one solution or belief in a situation. It means you should pick one of those beliefs quickly (it doesn't matter which one) and ride it, until shown otherwise. Being able to see more than one side of an issue, problem or situation is a gift. Just don't let it paralyze you. __________________ Last edited by JHVH : 10-29-4004 BC at 09:00 PM. Reason: Time for a rest.