The children aspect is definately a HUGE factor. I can see why this is a sticky situation. How often are these people around eachother? I realize that they are both at family functions but I am curious whether they live in the same area. I think that the "forbidden fruit" aspect plays into this situation and wonder if they would still feel the same if they weren't already married. I agree that advice is a touchy subject on this one, but I will say that regret is a bitch... something you have to learn to live with or change and cope with. Also how long have these couples been together?
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