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If I ever get remarried, I refuse to let people make all my decisions. I let that happen last time and it sucked. I didn't want a reception, but HIS MOM did. So instead of having six grand in CASH to spend on a honeymoon, house, car, whatever, we got to spend it on decorations, cakes, etc. I just wanted a casual openhouse but NOooOOooOoo. Ugh. And ya know what? The people who I would have REEEALLY wanted included (ie, best friends, etc) Didn't GET included, and it wasn't really my choice.
I kinda see that happening again unless I make it very clear NOW not to try to do shit for me. My hunny's mom got upset when I told her that if/when I have a kid, I only want my mom and my hunny in the room with me. She got SO_UPSET. I got a lecture about how I should open up to her and let her be part of my life. I spend more time with this woman than I spend with my family. :rollseyes:
//rant
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Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly-Rose Franken
.... absence makes me miss him more...
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