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Sweetpea · 01-30-2005, 11:00 PM

They both are probably sad to have ended up in the marriages that they did and are looking to each other for comfort perhaps?

If he and she both are Unhappy with their spouses and their quality of life is not what it should be . . . they should BOTH leave their spouses . . . but not for each other! . . . but because no one should stay married to someone that makes their life full of misery . . .

If he is truly unhappy with his wife (and there are no kids to screw up here) then he should leave and start a new life for himself . . . EVERYONE deserves to be happy . . . life is just too short to stay with someone who makes you miserable IMHO.

As his friend though . . . just offer him a place to vent his feelings, be his sounding board, but don't really offer too much advice, he needs to come to his own conclusions about his life and where is it going --- perhaps he should seek some couseling about what he is experiencing in his marriage? instead of perhaps thinking about an affair . . .

that is a tough situation for any friend to find themselves in . . . good luck in helping your friend through an obviously somewhat tough time in his life . . .

Sweetpea

01-30-2005, 11:00 PM	#7 (permalink)
Sweetpea Fade out Location: in love	They both are probably sad to have ended up in the marriages that they did and are looking to each other for comfort perhaps? If he and she both are Unhappy with their spouses and their quality of life is not what it should be . . . they should BOTH leave their spouses . . . but not for each other! . . . but because no one should stay married to someone that makes their life full of misery . . . If he is truly unhappy with his wife (and there are no kids to screw up here) then he should leave and start a new life for himself . . . EVERYONE deserves to be happy . . . life is just too short to stay with someone who makes you miserable IMHO. As his friend though . . . just offer him a place to vent his feelings, be his sounding board, but don't really offer too much advice, he needs to come to his own conclusions about his life and where is it going --- perhaps he should seek some couseling about what he is experiencing in his marriage? instead of perhaps thinking about an affair . . . that is a tough situation for any friend to find themselves in . . . good luck in helping your friend through an obviously somewhat tough time in his life . . . Sweetpea __________________ Having a Pet Will Change Your Life! Looking for a great pet?! Click Here! "I am the Type of Person Who Can Get Away With A lot, Simply Because I Don't Ask Permission for the Privilege of Being Myself"