Invitations -
Buy blank invitations and put your own design on them. Do it by hand if you have a small enough number. We took ours to a printer who did short runs cheaply.
Under no circumstances whatsoever should the word "Kinko's" ever be uttered when considering printers.
Location -
We had it at a very nice outdoor setting at my wife's place of employment. Of course, it helps if you work in a napa Valley winery...
Music -
She walked down the aisle to a Joe Satriani CD
Feeling special and at ease-
Fuggetabout it. You ARE #1 and nothing you could do on the wedding day is going to fuck up how your boy feels about you.
Photgrapher -
We had a situation where after the wedding we couldn't get any of the photos from the photographer we hired. Disaster? Hardly. My folks took some really great shots with their own little camera. They we about as good as anything the photographer did. (Yes, we SAW her photos, we just couldn't possess them. It was complicated and insane).
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