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Cervantes · 01-29-2005, 03:14 AM

So I've finally found the big glitch in my relationship with my SO.
She has a habbit of playing with my sexual urges. Making advances getting me all worked up but when I try to initiate sex she just says plainly "no I don't feel like it."

She can go a whole day making sexual insinuations, giving me flashes of her clevage and touching my body in a very seductive manner but when we get in bed for the night she just refuses saying "she doesn't feel like it."

On other occations she creeps up to me in bed and starts some heavy groping and kissing but when I try to inintate sex she just laughs and says "no not tonight."

We've never had any real porblems in bed, sex has been in overabundance and always amazing.
The kind of things she does above was the way she acted when she wanted sex. Now she's just playing with me and it's really frustrating.

It seems like it is a game to her, getting me all worked up and then refusing to go all the way. It's not just frustrating but also quiet painfull on an emotional level. I don't know if she does it just for the fun of it or if she has some other reason but it's been like this for a months now and I'm not sure I can stand it anymore.

I feel like a toy, something she plays with for kicks but discards before the games turn serious, and that hurts really bad.

I don't know what to do anymore, I've tried to talk to her about it but she just laughs it off saying it's not her fault I get "in the mood" all the time.

I'm at loss of what else to do, it feels like it has come to the point where it is more cons than pros with the relationship and it is turning unhealthy.

It's one thing that she doesn't feel like having sex it's whole other deal when she goes to great lengths turning me on and then just refuses when it comes to the actual act just because she thinks it's fun.

Anyone have any ideas?

01-29-2005, 03:14 AM	#1 (permalink)
Cervantes Psycho Location: Above you	Sick of my SO playing with me So I've finally found the big glitch in my relationship with my SO. She has a habbit of playing with my sexual urges. Making advances getting me all worked up but when I try to initiate sex she just says plainly "no I don't feel like it." She can go a whole day making sexual insinuations, giving me flashes of her clevage and touching my body in a very seductive manner but when we get in bed for the night she just refuses saying "she doesn't feel like it." On other occations she creeps up to me in bed and starts some heavy groping and kissing but when I try to inintate sex she just laughs and says "no not tonight." We've never had any real porblems in bed, sex has been in overabundance and always amazing. The kind of things she does above was the way she acted when she wanted sex. Now she's just playing with me and it's really frustrating. It seems like it is a game to her, getting me all worked up and then refusing to go all the way. It's not just frustrating but also quiet painfull on an emotional level. I don't know if she does it just for the fun of it or if she has some other reason but it's been like this for a months now and I'm not sure I can stand it anymore. I feel like a toy, something she plays with for kicks but discards before the games turn serious, and that hurts really bad. I don't know what to do anymore, I've tried to talk to her about it but she just laughs it off saying it's not her fault I get "in the mood" all the time. I'm at loss of what else to do, it feels like it has come to the point where it is more cons than pros with the relationship and it is turning unhealthy. It's one thing that she doesn't feel like having sex it's whole other deal when she goes to great lengths turning me on and then just refuses when it comes to the actual act just because she thinks it's fun. Anyone have any ideas? __________________ - "Philosophy is questions that may never be answered. Religion is answers that may never be questioned.." - "Religions take everything that your DNA naturally wants to do to survive and pro-create and makes it wrong." - "There is only one absolute truth and that is that there is only one absolute truth." Last edited by Cervantes; 01-29-2005 at 03:18 AM..