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Originally Posted by Vincentt
To me... it sounds like an addiction to drama, both you and her. Really reminds me of high school shit. The “I love you too much” that’s bullshit. This also has manic or bipolar written all over it.
The way you always say “I screwed up” or “she got so upset she lost 5 pounds” … honestly now…
She is playing you. And, she is really enjoying it. Maybe you enjoy being played? The drama gives something interesting to your lives.
Now she can talk all about how much she is tortured by love to her friends and they all ask her “what’s going on today.”
I’m sure this isn’t what you want to hear, and maybe I’m off base. Nevertheless, I will agree “RUN!” move on and get a new girl. A normal relationship will not be as wild a ride, but suffering doesn’t have to be part of the deal.
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Vincentt has some excellent points here . . . although i don't think it's " high school shit " at all, that was a bit harsh . . . it just seems as if you've gotten yourself in head over heels in drama . . .
And if it's meant to be, you'll both mature with time and be able to sustain a relationship not based on drama, but rather on mutual respect and understanding. LOVE is NOT what makes a serious relationship work, my hubby and i haven't been sucessfully married for so long because we LOVE each other so much, that actually doesn't even compute into the equation for a serious committment . . . communication, respect and honesty lead to the stability you are looking for. This woman is NOT respecting you with her actions . . . I feel that if you want a stable, meaningful relationship, this might not be the woman for you . . . if she wants to go . . . you can't make her stay. Move on my friend and find someone who suits you better, aka minus the drama . . .
Peace, we're here for you
. . . keep asking us questions and responding, even if we say things you don't want to here . . . we're not the Psychic hotline
