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it was years ago...but he still crushes on her??? hmm.
now, the guy code is as follows:
1. You shall not date a friend's ex.
2. If you ignore rule number 1, you have to ask.
3. He must say yes if you ask.
4. But you shouldn't have been asking in the first place, and just following rule #1.
I should mention, this is standard operating procedure, but you may have a special case.
If she did him wrong in the breakup, if it's really a case where you're screwing him over...don't do it. The years don't count for much, if he's still waiting for an apology or resolution.
But if she broke up for legitimate reasons and he just can't get over it? Then it's all good. The 4 years do count, because there's nothing there to wait for. The point of the guy code is to keep you from harming a friend...not make it impossible to date.
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