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Having been in a relationship that turned sexless I would not go back to that. It was horrible during the last year/year and a half of it, she would have sex like it was her obligation or something, no more than every 2 weeks and it was without any passion or desire. We had sex once during the last 6 months of the relationship, she got drunk at New Year's and jumped me. I thought it was a turning point but we never had sex again except for another drunken hookup once after we had split. I tried everything to get her to want it again but it just never happened, very frustrating, if I had had the chance to cheat on her during that time I probably would have. It was all but over at that point but neither of us wanted to admit it to the other, it wasn't just the sex, that was a symptom of many other problems that were going on.
Now I never actually cheated on her because all my focus was on finishing my last semester at college and graduating. Would it have been wrong, I guess so, but I doubt I would have had much guilt over it if it had happened.
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