Some people might consider this very selfish and immature of me, but I just don't see myself ever marrying a woman with a low sex drive even if she'd be the perfect person for me in every other aspect. While there is more to a relationship than just sex, it is crucial that partners be honest to each other about their expectations for sex within the marriage---especially the women because it seems to me that some women give a man a lot of sex prior to marriage in order to "reel him in" but then cut all nookie short once they've achieved their objective (get him to take her to the altar and/or have a baby).
I do not mean to sound mysogynous or anything, but I think women should be more honest about their sexual desires (or lack thereof) before they get a man to marry them because it is unfair to deny one's mate something as powerful and desirable as sex when they've taken a vow to forsake all others.
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Doncalypso... the one and only Haitian Sensation
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