Originally Posted by sweetpea

Thank you Averett for your comment, i would like to address it . . .

. . . if one spouse is COMMUNICATING "I need more sex" and the other spouse doesn't seem to care or isn't interested in intimacy . . . then what?? How many times should he tell her he needs more intimate moments? 5? 100?300?

My brother and sister in law are in this situation and have been according to her from the moment they got married 10 years ago . . . He wants to have more sex . . . she doesn't enjoy sex much and would prefer to have it like twice a month . . . They are otherwise a happy couple and communicate very well with their thoughts and feelings. . . but can't get it right in the bedroom because their sex drives are so divergently different . . . Then What do people do? Do you leave your otherwise perfect spouse, who is your best friend? No, probably not . . . But what does he do about the fact that he isn't getting an intimacy and she isn't interested in giving it to him??

Thanks!
sweetpea